Home ownership is not for everyone. Some prefer the flexibility of being able to move to a new city or country every few years. Others are more focused on big projects in their career or education to devote the proper time to buying a home. Some simply don’t have the resources. Whatever your situation, it’s important to know the right reasons to purchase a home.

Emotional Readiness

Owning a home is a big responsibility. There are both financial and time costs associated with the ownership and the upkeep of a house. If putting in the time and money is something that you can make central to your life, then you might be ready. There can also be outside, societal pressure to buy a home, as many see home ownership as a universal stepping stone. Make sure you are buying a home for you, and that home-ownership will fit your life and life goals.

Financial Readiness

Financial readiness isn’t just whether you have enough for a down payment or not. Just because you may qualify for a mortgage, it doesn’t mean you should borrow money for one. Before you begin looking to pre-qualify, make a budget for yourself. Calculate the true costs of home-ownership. Look where you stand with debt-to-income ratio.

Perhaps you need to pay down some credit card debt before considering applying for a mortgage, maybe you’re expecting a child, or looking to go back to school; all of these can be valid reasons to wait to purchase a home.

Read: How Much Home Can I Afford to Buy?

Security and Stability

If your debt is low, work life is stable, and you plan on staying in the same location for the next five years, you should be looking to purchase a home. At a certain point, the monthly rent check is money that could be better spent on building equity. If the money you spend on rent seems like it’s getting thrown away, deep down, you may be thinking of buying a home. If you already own a home, but that new promotion has started to make you feel like home maintenance is a waste, you also may be ready.

Read: 5 More Considerations When Buying a Home


Should I Buy or Rent a Home?

The decision to purchase a home is one of the biggest choices in anyone’s life. For most, a home will be the most expensive thing they ever own. In the past, home ownership was seen as a natural progression in the course of someone’s life. But today, many people happily rent for years on end, and never find an appropriate time to make the jump to home-ownership. So how do you know if you are ready to make that leap?

Read: The Pros and Cons of Renting vs. Buying


Setting Your Priorities

Although there may be a perfect home waiting for you in your desired area, the unfortunate reality is that many home buyers have to make compromises during their home search process. To be prepared, understand that there may not be the perfect house in the perfect location at the perfect price and in the perfect condition you require. Although this doesn’t mean that you won’t find a house you can afford in your perfect location, be prepared to be flexible on:

  1. Price of the home + extras
  2. Location of the home
  3. Condition of the home

If you know what your priorities are, then finding your ideal place to call home is both possible and realistic!

Location. Location. Location.

If location is your #1 priority, yet buying in that location will price you out of several of your other priorities, then you might have to compromise in several ways:

  • Look for a different home type within the community, such as a smaller single-family home, a townhouse or condominium. Decide if you can live with one less bedroom or other features on your list.
  • Consult with a lender or a financial planner to discuss your options for increasing your budget. While no one should overspend on a home, you should recognize that going above your price range when you’re financing your purchase with a 30-year fixed-rate loan may only add a small amount to your monthly payment (e.g. $10,000 might only cost an additional $30 / month).
  • Lower your expectations about the condition of the home. While everyone prefers a move-in ready home, you can often get a better deal on a home that needs some cosmetic repairs. Do your legwork though, as cosmetic repairs might cost more than you think once you dig a little deeper.

Every home-buyer faces the same tug-of-war. Home price, size, location, commute, amenities, and many other considerations all grapple for attention. Although all features seemingly have equal importance, many could be subjectively classified as ‘nice-to-have’ over ‘must-haves.’ Often something or somebody has to make a difficult choice, but ultimately ideal compromises can lead to a perfect (or almost perfect) home choice.

Read: How to Pick the Perfect Neighborhood to Buy a House


What You Can’t Compromise On

You can’t compromise on having good, qualified professionals on your home-buying team. Attempts to cut corners or compromise on this part of the home buying process will only lead to pain further down the road. Do your due-diligence in selecting these people for your team, and make sure they always have your best interests in mind.

Read: How to Build Your Home Buying Team


Closing Costs and the Full Price of Home-buying

In the home purchase process, the sale price of the house itself is only part of the cost of buying. Besides the down payment, there are always closing costs in any home sale. Closing Cost is a singular term for a wide variety of fees and payments, paid out to a wide variety of people involved in the sale, upon which the sale depends for going through.

This is not a complete list of all closing costs, but a list of the most common ones. The different fees involved to close a home sale can vary widely from state to state.

Fees to the Lender

  • Application Fee: The cost for the lender to process your application. Includes a credit check for your credit score or appraisal as well.
  • Escrow Deposit: Frequently, two months of property tax and mortgage insurance payments.
  • Homeowners’ Insurance: This covers possible damages to your home. Often the first year of insurance is paid at closing.
  • Lender’s Policy Title Insurance: This is insurance to assure the lender that you own the home and the lender’s mortgage is valid, and it protects the lender from potential problems with the title.
  • Loan Discount Points: One point equals one percent of your loan amount. This is a prepaid interest payment that lowers your monthly payment.
  • Origination Fee: This covers the lender’s administrative costs. Often 1% of the total loan.
  • Prepaid Interest: Most lenders will ask you to prepay any interest that will accrue between closing and the date of your first mortgage payment.
  • Private Mortgage Insurance (PMI): For those making a down payment that’s less than 20% of the home’s purchase price, you will most likely be required to pay PMI.
  • Property Tax: Lenders will want any taxes due 60 days within the purchase.
  • Underwriting Fee: This covers the cost of researching whether or not to approve you for the loan.

Fees to Others

  • Appraisal: For the appraisal company to confirm the fair market value of the home.
  • Closing Fee: The title company or escrow oversees the closing as an independent party in your home purchase.
  • Home Inspection: The home inspection will verify the condition of a property and recommend any home repairs that may be needed.
  • Recording Fees: Charged by your city or county recording office, to keep up to date the public land records.
  • Title Company Search Fee: Paid to the title company for doing a search of the property’s records. Ensures that no one else has a claim to the property.
  • Transfer Taxes: This is the tax paid when the title passes from seller to buyer.


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